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Plan the Perfect Trip to Holton, Kansas

October 11, 2022 by Vanessa Whiteside 2 Comments

Disclosure: Holton/Jackson County Chamber of Commerce sponsored this post. However, all opinions and photographs are my own.

Just when I think I’ve experienced the Sunflower State’s top towns, I discover Holton, Kansas. Located 30 minutes north of Topeka, Holton provides road trippers with a host of activities to enjoy from outdoor recreation and downtown shopping to casual dining and beer tasting.

Holton, Kansas downtown shoppingThe town was hosting the 15th Annual Fall Fest the day I arrived and the Kansas weather couldn’t have been more beautiful.

PENNY’S COFFEE SHOP

A latté from Penny’s Coffee Shop (409 New York Ave.) was what I needed to jumpstart my visit. The sign read “Nothing that a good cup of coffee and shopping can’t fix.” Perfection.

Penny's Coffee Shop Tiles
Penny’s Coffee Shop is located in a historic building that one housed a J.C. Penny department store.

I waited in line to order a Chai Tea Latté and breakfast sausage sandwich. Although the coffee shop was unusually busy, the line moved swiftly. The short wait gave me time to review the full menu including coffee drinks, frappes, fruit smoothies, and a short list of breakfast bites.

Penny's customers
The line extending to the shop’s front door isn’t typical, but locals came out in droves during Fall Fest.

A father and son shared a cinnamon roll at a nearby table while setting up a board game. The walls were adorned with paintings for sale by a local artist. Small floral arrangements by Triple B Hilltop Farm sat on each table.

Penny’s was a delightful place to sit back and relax while enjoying a latté and breakfast from a soft leather couch. I recommend starting your day there. They also serve soup and salad for lunch. View the cafés hours and daily specials here.

latte

FALL FEST

Holton’s Fall Fest celebration showcased shopping and food vendors, a scarecrow contest, a Shut The Back Door contest, and a chili cook-off. Residents gathered on sidewalks in front of tables tasting chili samples made by various businesses. Children stood in line to get their faces painted. Townies greeted one another in passing. The town was bustling with activity.

mumsShut the Door Contest

A handful of local businesses in town painted a backdoor to their business as an entry into the Shut the Door Contest. Each colorfully painted door draws foot traffic to a business while beautifying downtown’s back alleyways. An overall winner was selected during the festival.

Back Door MuralsDuring my self-guided tour, I came upon whimsical paintings depicting flowers and landscape scenes. One door showcased a Mexican restaurant’s theme. You don’t necessarily need a map to find the back door murals. Keep your eyes peeled as you walk down the alleyways in the downtown area.

Quilt Show

They say “to quilt is to live.” The quilts displayed in the Fall Fest show displayed wow-worthy intricate patterns. People filed in and out of a courthouse room to get a glimpse of the handiwork of the town’s top quilters.

quiltsWith names like “Giraffes on Parade,” “Random Scraps,” and “Flying Geese,” each quilt was an expression of the creator’s personality. Table toppers and queen-sized bedding creations drew attention.

Scarecrow Decorating Contest

Fun Fact: I won a costume contest dressed as a scarecrow. So, I’d like to think I’m a good judge of creativity when it comes to putting one together. The entries at Fall Fest were displayed on the Jackson County Courthouse lawn in all their splendor. The overstuffed scarecrows were dressed as recognizable animals, movie characters, and celebrities.

scarecrow contest
I appreciated this entry into the Scarecrow Decorating Contest because it pushed the bounds of what you’d expect to see. Plus, how cute is that campfire?
Cruise Night

What’s a small-town festival without a Cruise Night? Locals lined up their vehicles one by one in the shadow of the courthouse on the evening of Fall Fest. Gearheads talked shop. The smell of exhaust hung in the air. Locals walked by each car checking under the hoods. And every so often, you’d hear the roar of an engine starting up as a driver left the lineup to take a cruise around town. Classic.

car show

JACKSON COUNTY HISTORICAL MUSEUM

For me, the best way to get to know a town I’m visiting for the first time is to visit the county museum. Who are the town’s founders and why did they choose the area? What industries flourished in the area? Jackson County Historical Museum (327 New York Ave.) is a treasure box of valuable information and artifacts.

Historical Museum Artifacts You can expect a free, self-guided tour to see exhibits featuring one-room schoolhouse items, Carrie Nation history, barbed wire history, World War I & II memorabilia, and the tools of 1900s trades. The building itself is historic because of its aging architecture and tin ceilings. View the museum’s hours here.

Museum Tins

MURALS

Several murals dotted the town’s urban landscape, including the newest one painted by Wichita artist Lindsey Kernodle on the outside of Jackson County Museum (327 New York Ave.). As you drive into town, its striking colors and storytelling images will beg you to pull over.

Museum MuralKernodle’s two-frame mural showcases an early version of how the Tallgrass Prairie used to look when it flourished. The second painting on the right represents the current state of the prairie.

During my visit, I chatted with the artist and discovered how important it is to preserve the remaining native prairie. Comparing both images gave me pause and inspired me to revisit the area.

MuralOther murals around town will grab your attention. Cruise just beyond the boundary of the downtown area to see murals like the one pictured below painted on the side of a building at Banner Creek Reservoir (10975 KS-16).

Banner Creek Reservoir Mural
2017 mural organized by Jackson County Arts located at Banner Creek Reservoir

JHETT’S PIZZA

Since 2006, Jhett’s Pizza (401 New York) is the locals’ go-to place for a satisfying slice. The restaurant’s dining room was nearly full during the lunch hour. I heard from a local that if I ordered my pizza to-go, I could take it to Willcott Brewing Company & Taproom down the street and enjoy it with a craft beer.

Pizza RestaurantI ordered an 8″ Meat Lovers Pizza at the counter and sat down and waited for it. Families continued to pour into the restaurant looking for open seating. Customers with call-in orders approached the counter. The phone never stopped ringing.

Take my advice. Beat the weekend lunch rush or call the restaurant for a to-go pizza, especially if you’re visiting Holton during Fall Fest. Bring cash for payment otherwise you are charged a fee for using a credit card. View the menu here.

WILLCOTT BREWING COMPANY & TAPROOM

I entered Willcott Brewing Company & Taproom (219 W. 4th St.) with my pizza box in hand. To quench my thirst, I ordered a $10 beer flight with four craft beer selections.

Beer FlightLike most home brewers, owner Sean Willcott’s passion for making craft beer grew over time. After three years working at Anheuser-Busch, his family renovated an aging building and opened the brewery and taproom. His beer and the taproom are stellar examples of his hard work.

Five TVs adorn brick-exposed walls providing patrons with a view of the game no matter where they sit. Tables are inlayed with nostalgic board games. The hallway leading to the bathrooms is illuminated with dangling light fixtures resembling hops.

Pizza & BeerSo, how’s the beer? I’m happy to report that I loved them all. That’s rare. Willcott Brewing Company & Taproom’s brews are top-notch, and my favorite brew was 1874, a Red Turkey Whit. It was the perfect complement to my savory pizza, which I also wholeheartedly recommend. View the brewery’s hours and community-focused promotional events here.

DOWNTOWN SHOPPING

A number of shops in the downtown area make spending your dollars to support local businesses a fun experience. I suggest parking near the courthouse and walking the four-block radius to discover each one.

Holton Mercantile

Holton Mercantile (415 New York Ave.) is a general store that carries everything from cards and seasonal decorations to kitchen tools and puzzles. It’s the kind of store where you shop when you need essentials but you also walk away with something you didn’t know you wanted like a ball cap supporting your favorite college team or a gift for your pet.

Holton MercantileBut it’s more than a variety store. Everyone I talked to in town raved about its old-fashion soda fountain, so I had to order a classic chocolate ice cream cone. Kids in the store gleefully looked at shelves of candy asking their parents to buy Laffy Taffy or suckers. The store is a mainstay in Holton dating back decades. You’ll appreciate the building’s original floors and tin ceiling.

Ice Cream Cone

Beverly Brown Boutique

Offering a large selection of women’s and men’s apparel, Beverly Brown Boutique (124 W. 5th St.) resembles a big city clothing store. You’ll be hard-pressed not to find something that you’ll want to try on. Family-owned and operated, the boutique carries well-known brands and a deep inventory of denim jeans. I found the customer service to be helpful when inquiring about jeans in my size.

Beverly Brown BoutiqueShoppers earn discounts if they sign up for the “Text Club” and they are willing to ship items via USPS to you. If you join their rewards membership, you earn one point for every pre-tax dollar you spend on a purchase.

More Than Lemons

Have you shopped in a store featuring blown glass creations? More Than Lemons (424 Pennsylvania) houses one-of-a-kind gifts made of glass in the owner’s hot shop. Every glass item you see in the store is an original handcrafted creation.

Glass orbs hang from delicate strings on display. The sunlight through the store’s windows shines through pretty paperweights and beams through bowls and colorful vases.

Check the More Than Lemons Facebook page to plan a visit when the owner is giving a glass-blowing demonstration behind the building.

More Than Lemons

Heart To Home

Jewelry. Candle warmers. Bath and body products. Designer purses. Farmhouse decor. You’ll find it all and then some at Heart To Home (105 W. 4th St.). As soon as you walk inside, your eyes dart all over the store looking at items that you want to bring home.

Shoppers travel miles to shop at the store for Nora Fleming, Spartina purses, Vera Bradley bags, and Melissa & Doug toys. The front of the story features in-season displays.

Heart to HomeEmployees keep shoppers intrigued by offering specials from $5 Grab Bags to discounted merchandise specials. Stay up to date on the latest inventory and deals by checking their Facebook page.

The Gossip

Located at 409 New York, The Gossip was voted Favorite Vintage Shop in Kansas by Flea Market Style. The 8,000-square-foot shop is located in the rear of Penny’s café. A number of local artisans’ treasures and antiques are for sale.  Displays of battery-operated candles flicker from store shelves nestled next to beautiful plates and framed art.

The GossipIn addition, you’ll discover new items from home decor to packaged specialty foods. You’re bound to want a canister of hot chocolate mix, apple butter, or dipping mix.

Mad Eliza’s

Regretfully, I didn’t make it to Mad Eliza’s (126 W. 5th St) before they closed despite my best efforts. However, I wanted to feature the bakery shop since locals told me they love it for its baked goods and craft sodas.

You can expect the bakery case to be filled with a rotation of grab-and-go treats. Savory scones, jumbo cupcakes, napoleons, and pastries tempt the tastebuds. I’m told the Cheesecake Waffle Cone is to die for, so I’ll most definitely before they close at 1 pm on a Saturday to buy one.

Novel Goods

Attention, book lovers! Novel Goods (413 New York Ave.) was made for you. The bookshop and gift store sells new and old books. Titles are displayed in a way that is accessible making it easy to find your book of choice.

As you peruse the store, keep your eyes peeled for items to add to your purchase ranging from necklaces to coffee mugs. Located close to Penny’s, I recommend stopping by to pick up a novel to enjoy over a cup of coffee. View the bookstore’s hours and see images of their newest book titles here.

Novel Goods

LEMON LOFTS OF HOLTON

My lodging accommodations at Lemon Lofts of Holton (424 Pennsylvania Ave.) were delightful. I used a four-digit code for self-entry into the building that housed More Than Lemons and walked up a flight of stairs. The hallway was covered in unique artwork and glass sculptures hung overhead. 

loftMy Queen Suite’s tall windows provided a view of an expansive outdoor patio illuminated by blinking string lights. The room included a plush bed, kitchenette, spacious bathroom, and flat-screen TV. I had access to free Wi-Fi and a Google Mini.

bedroomThe accommodations were comfortable and quiet. I didn’t hear noise from neighboring rooms, which surprised me given that the 130-year-old building had wood floors and tall ceilings. I slept like a baby. I’m confident you’ll love your stay. Check out the availability and pricing here.

bathsunrise at patio

HOLTON COMMUNITY THEATRE

My next stop? Holton Community Theatre (401 New Jersey Ave.) within a short walking distance of Lemon Lofts of Holton for a dinner theatre performance with local actors. “Now and Then,” a romantic comedy was the story of a young man and woman discovering their destiny by meeting their future selves. 

theatrePrior to the performance, attendees enjoyed a catered homestyle meal with dessert at community tables with other audience members. Affordable cocktails were available for purchase.

Later, the lights dimmed and the room was illuminated by stage lights and candles on each table. About 60 audience members watched the thought-provoking performance. 

actorsI’d highly recommend you try to plan your trip to Holton around the theater’s upcoming performance. The actors’ talent was impressive. To view the event schedule and reserve a ticket, visit the box office details here. 

HOTSPOT

The next morning, I made my way to HotSpot Speciality Coffee Shop & More (316 Pennsylvania St.). The quaint café serves patrons gourmet coffee, pastries, and quick bites like breakfast burritos. I opted for two seasonal favorites: an Apple Crumb Macchiato and a warm cinnamon roll. 

HotSpotSeated indoors, I noticed that most of the morning café traffic came via the drive-thru. I found the interior of the café to be inviting. The employees were patient as I chose my menu items and were more than welcoming. 

HISTORICAL HOMES & LANDMARKS TOUR

Historical homes make up a portion of Holton’s residential area. I decided to take a self-guided driving tour to see them and discover other landmarks.

treesAll of the homes on the tour are private residences except one that is maintained by the Jackson County Historical & Genealogical Society. I was amazed by the Sears Roebuck and Co. (NW corner of 4th and Kansas Ave.) concrete block house, originally featured in the 1908 catalog, is a 2 1/2 story house with four bedrooms. 

historical homeThe nearby Beck Bookman Library (420 W. 4th St.) wows passersby with its bleached white exterior and awe-inspiring architecture. It was named in honor of Major and Mrs. Milton Moses Beck who were early residents of the town. The library has remained open to the public since 1952. 

libraryDuring my drive around town, I got out of the car to get a closer look at the statuary honoring Holton’s residents. Be sure to check out the war memorial honoring US Army Sergeant Bernard Lee Deghand in the town’s courthouse square. You’ll also be in walking distance of a cannon statue “Erected by Will Wendell in 1913.”

memorialLinscott Park (4th and Iowa St.) is historic in many ways. It was named for Shephard Linscott, a banker and real estate investor who built a mansion on the property in the 1800s. Today, the stone pillars mark the property’s original entrance. 

parkMilitary memorials at the park are impressive. Holton is a Purple Heart City, so the memorial on site honors every medal recipient. A World War II memorial pays tribute to Company “E” of the 137th Infantry who died at war.

war memorialsThe town’s swimming pool at Rafter’s Park (7th and Nebraska St.) was constructed as a Works Progress Administration federal project in 1938. It is considered one of the largest municipal pools in Kansas.

Take a moment to walk the grounds and look at its stone construction. A one-time kiddie pool is now a sunflower mural. The pool is open from Memorial Day weekend through the summer. 

sunflower mural

BANNER CREEK RESERVOIR & WATCH YOUR GLASS

I set out to discover Banner Creek Reservoir (10975 K-16 Hwy) a short drive outside of town. Not only did I set out to see views of the no-wake lake surrounded by native vegetation, but I was determined to find a glass orb. Jackson County’s Watch Your Glass initiative encourages tourists to find one of 100 glass orbs hidden in the county. The hunt was on.

TrailAs I looked for a clear or colored orb, I appreciated the picturesque views that included fishing piers, a 9-hole disc golf course, and campsites. Walking trails weaved around the lake.

trail mapUnfortunately, I didn’t find an orb but I enjoyed the search. If you find one, you can keep it. But should you locate a second orb, you are encouraged to leave it where it is or re-hide it. Maybe I’ll have better luck next time! View a map of the area here.

TRAILS CAFE

It was lunchtime and I was famished. My friends joined me for lunch at Trails Cafe (601 Arizona Ave.) on the edge of town. The popular eatery is well-documented in regional travel magazines and food review websites for its irresistible pressure-cooked fried chicken. 

Trails Cafe buildingAs we made our way to a table, I stopped to peer inside double-door refrigerator housing plates of sliced pie. I knew I wasn’t leaving the restaurant without devouring a slice. 

For lunch, I dined on a garden salad followed by a two-piece chicken entree with my choice of potato and vegetable side dish. Although I was stuffed, I stuck to the plan and ordered a hefty slice of a lemon meringue pie. The meal lived up to the hype and the cafe is worthy of a repeat visit. 

chicken dinner

LANE FREEDOM TRAIL

My visit to Holton was nearly complete but not without a driving tour to the Lane Freedom Trail. The site of “Battle of the Spurs,” is where John Brown led 12 slaves to freedom. You will be in awe of the shady spot surrounded by a canopy of trees for its historical significance. Click here to learn more about John Brown’s exit from Kansas. 

historical siteI loved my visit to Holton. As they say, you can have it all in Jackson County. Holton embraces visitors and you’ll feel just as welcome as I did.HoltonI encourage you to travel to Holton for an overnight stay to explore a small-town setting with some of the state’s top attractions. You’ll never lack for something to discover in this charming town north of Topeka.

If you have questions about visiting the area or suggestions for nearby destinations, leave them in the comment below.

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5 Essential Cookbooks You Shouldn’t Live Without

April 15, 2021 by Vanessa Whiteside Leave a Comment

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You open the refrigerator and half-opened containers, ripe fruit, and leftover chicken are staring back at you. You wonder, “What recipe can I make to use up these items?” I’ve been there. When time is of the essence and I need to get dinner on the table in a hurry, I rely on my trusty cookbook library to help me out.

I don’t want you to ever stand in your kitchen again wondering what meal to prepare for your family. Each one of these five cookbooks will inspire you to put on an apron! Here are five of my go-to favorite cookbooks that I highly recommend adding to your collection.

“Eating in the Middle: A Mostly Wholesome Cookbook” by Andie Mitchell

I love this cookbook because Mitchell includes wholesome, healthy recipes that are admittedly a bit decadent. Eating is about balance and when you know you need to eat a nutritious meal yet still crave certain ingredients, “Eating in the Middle” is a must-use cookbook. She has taught me better ways of preparing ingredients (baked sweet potatoes, anyone?) and has taught me to appreciate foods that cut the calories but not the flavor. I highly suggest preparing her Argula with Orange Segments, Spiced Walnuts & Goat Cheese salad.

What Can You Expect:

Recipes with big flavor using fresh ingredients perfect for weeknight meals or weekend celebrations. The book includes a chapter “For Sharing” with recipes ideal for large families or hosting friends.

Buy the cookbook here.

“The Pioneer Woman Cooks Dinnertime” by Ree Drummond

Ree does it again! Comfort classic, 16-minute meals, and supper solutions are exactly what every home cook needs when the family is breathing down your back asking, “What’s for dinner?” You’ll find yourself adding these recipes to a regular rotation. Each fool-proof recipe comes with step-by-step photos. The cookbook includes recipes like Pork Chops with Wine and Roasted Garlic, Mexican Tortilla Casserole, and Dessert Panini. As a Kansan, I appreciate the beautiful photos and prairie life commentary included within its pages. I recommend trying her Sausage, Kale, & Potato Soup recipe.

What Can You Expect:

Tips for make-ahead meals, ingredient variations for each recipe, conversion charts, and recommendations for complementary side dishes or bread recipes. Don’t skip pages 370-371! Ree has created recipe lists based on the type of eater you’re serving from Fancy Friends to Kid-Friendly and Meatless Wonders to Neighbors in Need.

Buy the cookbook here.

“New Cookbook” by Better Homes and Gardens

The internationally recognized cookbook is a staple for every home chef. It was the very first one that I owned and it was given to me by my mother just after I graduated high school.  First introduced in 1930, it continues to provide cooks with dishes made with easy-to-source ingredients. From comfort classics like roasted chicken to fancier fare such as Gingered Plum-Glazed Halibut, the cookbook is the ultimate resource for cooks from beginner to advanced. I recommend preparing the Ribeyes with Grilled Garlic recipe.

What Can You Expect:

Each recipe includes nutrition facts and daily vitamin values. Expect to learn the basics of how to select meat, how to prepare food using various cooking methods, and how to select the perfect serving dish.

Buy the cookbook here.

“Family Food: Kitchen Tested, Home Approved” by Guy Fieri

A fan of “Guy’s Ranch Kitchen,” a Food Network show that features fellow chefs cooking together at Guys’ home, I’ve learned a lot about how to elevate my cooking using smoked, grilled, and fresh ingredients. The cookbook includes 125 “real-deal recipes” that pay homage to his family’s love of food. The chapters are filled with recipes ranging from stacked sandwiches and savory noodle dishes to recipes that families can get involved in making like kabobs and home-baked pizza. I prepared Poutine French French Fries, a recipe that I’m still daydreaming about today.

What Can You Expect:

Quick tips for selecting the best ingredients, Flavortown favorites, and recipes using southwestern ingredients.

Buy the cookbook here.

“Home Cooking Basics: Great Food Made Simple” by Southern Living

Have you ever dined in the South and wished you could make the same recipes at home? “Home Cooking Basics” includes easy-to-follow Southern recipes that take the guesswork out of cooking. The book is written to improve your cooking skills while expanding your flavor palette. I highly recommend buying the cookbook if you or someone you know would appreciate having a virtual chef by your side walking you through each step of a recipe. Fancy up your appetizer spread with recipes like Baked Fig Crostini or Curried Shrimp Tarts. Dive into dinner entrees like Southern Stuffed Rosemary Chicken or Braised Beef Brisket. I recommend making Big Daddy’s Grilled Blue Cheese-and-Bacon Potato Salad when hosting a backyard party.

What Can You Expect:

The book is an illustrated guide to Southern cooking. If you follow the steps shown in each photo, you’ll achieve culinary greatness by the time you’re ready to serve a meal. They make it easy!

Buy the cookbook here.

I hope that you find one of these cookbooks the perfect addition to your kitchen library or best suited as a gift for a fellow foodie. I’d love to hear your recommendations for a must-have cookbook. Leave it in the comments below!

cookbooks

 

Filed Under: Taste Tagged With: baking, books, chefs, cookbooks, cooking, foodie gift, guide, home cooking, library, reading, recipes, southern

The Power of Sharing Books: Little Free Library

May 29, 2018 by Vanessa Leave a Comment

Give a book. Take a book. Little Free Libraries are pop-up stands, located around cities, that contain books for people to donate books to, and if they need a book, take a book to read. It’s brilliant!

Have you seen a Little Free Library in your town? We have several in our city where stands are typically located near parks or civic organizations. I appreciate the thought behind the book kiosks because each one stands as a symbol for building community, a thoughtful ripple of pay-it-forward kindness. The book exchange concept is a fun way to donate books you no longer want and perhaps find a new book to read. Because it is free — everyone wins!

I dropped leftover classroom books off at two Little Free Libraries in my area. Inside each stand, I found deep shelves partially stocked with all genres of books from young adult literature to true crime dramas. Each library had plenty of room for me to add my donated books. All you have to do is open the front door of the library, place your book donations inside, and close the door. This act of kindness couldn’t be more simple!

Out of consideration of potential readers, your donated books should be in like new condition.

You can locate a book exchange location using this map! Don’t like the books within a Little Free Library, no problem! Simply located another kiosk in your area using the interactive map.

NOTE: If accompanying a child, you might need to help them open the door to a Little Free Library as they are built for an adult’s height.

Fun Fact: Little Free Libraries are also referred to as “mini-town squares.”

Want to learn more about starting a book exchange stand in your neighborhood? Interested in donating books on behalf of your kid’s scout troop or school? Learn more about Little Free Libraries here. 

I would love to hear about your experience donating in your community! Please comment below to tell me about it!

Free Little Libraries

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Garden House Showcase: A Special Place for Mom

April 18, 2017 by Vanessa Leave a Comment

My mom is quite talented at a lot of things. When guests come over she rolls out the red carpet with the some of the most delicious meals. Even if you’ve dropped by the house mid-day, she’ll serve you a delicious cheese and fruit platter and pour you a glass of Chardonnay. Yea, she’s that kind of hostess.

But don’t be surprised if you knock on the door and she doesn’t answer. She’s most likely outside in her custom built garden house doing what she does best…gardening. Make no mistake. This is no She Shed. She refuses to let people label it as such. This is a real-deal garden house where she spends time cultivating her craft – making her gardens flourish. Whether she is sitting in the screened in porch chair reading about rose bushes or potting plants in the stainless steel sink, her green thumb is at work.

Located behind my parent’s home, mom’s garden house often entices strangers driving by to stop and ask to see it.

It seems only fair that my step-dad, who has his own woodworking shop, would build a garden house for her, right? The 8’x12′ house (not including the 5’x12′ screened in porch) includes the same amenities that any home would have including running water and electricity. During the winter it houses plants she wants to keep alive from the outdoor elements and during the summer the sun beams in on oversized house plants.

I recognize quite a bit of my mom’s style in her garden house’s design from the upcycled screen door to the ceiling light fixture that she held on to for years until this house was built.

Mom’s garden house is an extension of her own home. The interior’s neutral colors, off-set by the bright white counter tops and trimmed windows, includes various green hues from decorative additions and dark black metal pieces. Having collected many of the sitabouts over time, she decorates in a style more sophisticated than rustic farmhouse but less stuffy than classic traditional. She has an eclectic sense of design style that is uniquely her own.

Once inside the screened in porch, glass French doors remain welcome you into a spacious window lit space.
Muted green wicker chairs flank both sides of the screened in porch to the east and the west.

When not busy nurturing plants, she uses the garden house as a quiet refuge to read or just watch her many bird feeders in the yard over a glass of wine. When friends visit on occasion, like her Bunco gal pals, it serves as a getaway space to venture to between games for a quick tour. You can hear the women audibly dote over each detail of the garden house. They want one too. Who wouldn’t?

A serious gardner needs a space to pour over the details found in gardening books. Always the humble student, my mom enjoys learning why some plants and flowers flourish and how she can attract or eliminate insects.

Mom’s appreciation of nature goes back as far as I can remember.

“It (gardening) feeds my soul in a way nothing else does. I’m connected to plants in new says every year,” she said recently.

My childhood was spent watching her in the yard with her hands in the dirt on weekends. After coming home from school we would drag around the hose to water thick, layered flower beds of all colors and varieties. Sunflowers towered over our heads and wildflowers nestled at our feet. She would tell me about butterflies that she adored and the grasshoppers that broke her heart.

Today, she still sees beauty in the colors of delicate flowers and enjoys the harvest of a vegetable or herb garden. Her accepted challenge each year is to learn about the needs of plant placement in her landscape while always attempting to attract birds, bees, and insects.

Antique pottery and her favorite pieces adorn a shelf above the door inside the garden house.
The east side of the garden house exposes an area behind it where she also pots plants and flowers.
The wooden table on the right was her only potting station at our old house.

Gardening is not easy. She admits that the challenge is to find the balance between what she wants to plant and what nature will allow. Admittedly, she says there are more failures to learn every season and enough small successes to keep her happy.

I love spring and wish it lasted longer, she says.

It’s true. She smiles the most in the spring (with college basketball season in a close second place). When the weather begins to warm up and the days spring forward, she is more outdoors than she is indoors. I often call her to wish her a “Happy Spring” only for it to go to voicemail because she’s outside playing in the yard.

While I love the outdoors, I’m not a natural gardener. I struggle to keep plants alive. I either over or under water them. Completely forget about them. I never installed the proper drip system. Can a person’s “green thumb” be learned? Maybe I just wrote it off as “mom’s hobby.” I should have really paid more attention when helping her in the yard as a teen. Just last week I called her seeking advice about our sad rose bushes. Before I knew it, I was at her house on my hands and knees pruning her rose bushes while she used wood glue on the stem ends to prevent bores for invading them again. Glue? Who knew!

A rusty garden tool serves as a door knocker on the exterior of the garden house.

I’m “foodie” thanks to my mom’s love of cooking. In fact, many of her garden harvests end up in her recipes. Ripe tomatoes are the star ingredient in her homemade gazpacho, a cool treat during a blazing hot summer day. Fresh herbs like rosemary and thyme find their way into many of her savory recipes. This year she has decided to trade her tomato plants for perennials because it’s just less to have to worry about and each year perennials come back stronger when given the space to spread out.

I’ve have so much to learn from her wisdom about nature, about plants and birds. As I mentioned before, I’m at best a wannabe gardener. In fact, I’ve killed so many house plants over the years that if there is every going to be any hope for me, I’m going to have to spend more time with mom in the garden house. If you’re more like me, you’ll appreciate a post she helped me write last summer 10 Hard to Kill Houseplants You Can Leave While on Vacation.

But not every day can be spent gardening. Sometimes the body needs a day of rest between the hours spent digging in unforgiving soil and pulling weeds away from flowers. On these days, she takes time to let her body relax but we all know she is still thinking about her next outdoor project.

A water drip system was installed for her window boxes, which extends to the container pots near the garden house entrance.

What can we learn from mom’s garden house? Every woman, every person, needs a space to call their own. Where they can go to escape the chaos of the day and appreciate some quiet time or just enjoy their hobby.

Looking west from inside.

What is it that brings you peace? What do you enjoy learning about most? Tell me in the comments section how you pursue your hobby or where you like to spend quiet time.

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